Why humans consider « jealousy » and « need someone » as a Love proof ?

  • « Jealousy » come from possessiveness. Snails think than we cannot own someone as an object. Nobody can belong to someone.
  • « To need » is dependence or addiction, not love.
  • « Expect » or « need something » to a person, can also mean to have interest on her.

Have interest is a good thing. But it’s still not love.

 

It’s when we don’t need someone, than we are able to truly love.

The only person we should « need » is ourself. To be able to love anyone.

 

We Love someone, when we are happy with.

To snails happiness come by the fact to be learning. By the fact to be in movement instead of static.

More you learn from someone, more you become autonomous, less you need this person, more you can love her.

We love people because we have discovered and learned to know them.

We love the magic we found in them.

 

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